Have The Confidence To Be You

The only way we can have everything we want from life is by becoming a different person. And by that I don’t me completely changing your personality and the way you act so your loved ones don’t recognise you, but merely becoming more you. Emphasizing what makes you, YOU!

No Worries, Be Happy

The main reason I change the way I behave is, I’m conscious of what people will think. What will they think of me? What judgement will they make?

When I’m in this frame of mind I tell myself – it’s none of my business what other people think of me!

We are allowed to think what we like, there is no law on thinking…yet! And, besides 9 times out of 10 my assumptions (or paranoia) to what people are thinking are normally wrong. In fact, what they’re thinking probably isn’t about me – being self-centred just comes natural.

Express Yourself

The only way to be truly happy is to ooze your personality into every conversation and interaction. Accept who you are and be comfortable with it.

You are unique. Sure, not everyone will like you, but someone will love you.


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A Mind That Never Stops!

My mind constantly ticks over – there’s always thoughts running through it, some are rational and others I should probable be sectioned for.

“Everything starts as a thought”

I’m often lost in my own world for what appears to be hours, but in reality only a few seconds have drifted on by.

I can count on one hand the times my mind has been still and empty during the past year. And even then it was only for a passing moment.

The Calm After The Storm

However, I have recently found two ways to calm the storm. Hopefully they are as effective for you as they are for me;


Pouring my mind onto paper, this blog and my book flushes everything out, like water draining out of a sink. At first, I can write lots in a short space of time and then it gets less and less until there’s nothing left – just emptiness. Peacefulness!


Being around my girlfriend quietens my mind. A person having this effect on me is something I haven’t experienced before.

It makes me wonder what effects other people could have; maybe someone else could inspire me to think of new ideas or dispel old beliefs.

If you have found a different way to calm the mind I would love to hear about it, get in touch by one of the methods below.

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